CUTTING IS EASING THE PAIN </3

WARNING: THERE WILL BE GRAFIC IMAGES!!

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These pictures are of another set of quotes stating they have scars to prove they have the hurt and pain built inside of them.
 
MY ISSUE AND A BRIEF OVERVIEW OF IT:

For my you and the world project my issue is cutting. I am interested in it because i have been down that path before and it is not a pretty sight. i would never cut to leave a scar but just have myself relief pain and i actually was in a mental hospital for hours until i got tired of waiting, talked to someone quickly and then left. Not a pretty sight. Even though i have been down that path I am also interested in it because this topic is very interesting and a lot of my friends started it in middle school as well.

Cutting is a kind of self harm. A lot of teenagers start it because they have been bullied, harassed or have a deep and hurtful time going on right now. Once they start cutting as a teenager most of the time it leads into adult hood and people use it a lot to cope with pain. It is an compulsive behavior which means once you start cutting is going to always be there.


WHY AM I INTERESTED IN IT AND MY EXPERIENCE:

I am interested in it because i have been down that path before and it is not a pretty sight. i would never cut to leave a scar but just have myself relief pain and i actually was in a mental hospital for hours until i got tired of waiting, talked to someone quickly and then left. Not a pretty sight. Even though i have been down that path I am also interested in it because this topic is very interesting and a lot of my friends started it in middle school as well. I feel very passionate about this issue since i used to cut myself and even tried to commit suicide. My friends helped me through my problems though. Honestly, without my friends i could be dead right now.



The most common stereotype of people who cut themselves is EMO. Emo means emotionally unstable so yes they may tend to cut themselves but not all emo people do. These pictures are of Emo/Goth people who are the main sterotype of people who cut themselves. The girl on the left has snakebites.
WARNING SIGNS:
  • scars from burns or cuts
  • fresh cuts, scratches bruises or other wounds



self_harm-1The pictures above show what people are feeling and that they need help.

  • broken bones
  • keeping sharp objects on hand
  • spending a great deal of time alone
  • relationship troubles
  • wearing long sleeves or long pants even in hot weather
  • claiming to have frequent accidents or mishaps
  • LOW-SELF ESTEEM
  • problems handling emotions
  • problems with relations

Details that i found about the topic:
_  teens learn to cope in many ways. some of them being tears, anger, depression are some of the ways of ringing relief from overwhelming feelings.
  • some teens release this pain by cutting, burning but more importantly SELF HARM.

These pictures show people cutting themselves.



  • the rate of self harm is growing. To gain a deeper understanding of self harm is the first step to helping yourself or another
  • There is treatment but as with all mental and physical conditions early diagnosis is key to a successful outcome.
  • cutting is the most common form of self injury among today's youth
  • behaviors like smoking, alcohol and drug addiction, and staying in an abusive relationship can be considered forms of self harming.
  • people who self harm are seeking relief from psychological pain, unbearable tension, loneliness, depression, anger or an absence of feeling of numbness

images-3 copyThese pictures are of quotes that people feel which is the reason why they are cutting



WHAT CAN YOU DO??

  • if u are self injuring yourself talk to someone you trust. may be able to recommend a therapist who MAY be able to help you
  • if concerned about a friend/family member just ask if they are cutting themselves.
  • offer support without judging or criticizing. try not to blame or react as though their behavior is impossible to understand

TREATMENT FOR SELF-HARM:

  • treatment by a mental health professional
  • specialist
    behavior therapist 



WHAT ARE YOU WONDERING ABOUT??

I wonder what are common reactions of people normally and why they automatically send you to a therapist if you are cutting. Also want to know why they think if you cut you are an emo.

WHAT DO YOU QUESTION?

Why do teenager not talk bout their problems with someone?

WHAT DO YOU HOPE TO LEARN AS THE TOPIC GOES ON?

 I hope to learn a better understanding as to why do not talk to people if they are self-harming themselves.

EXTRA INFO:

from experience the music people that cut themselves listen to are traditionally sad, depressing songs that tells their life, songs that they can relate to and songs that are hardcore and metal such as my chemical romance.

quotes. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://members.tripod.com/mi_ruka0/id18.html:

I know what its like to want to die; how it hurts to smile; how you try to fit in but you can't; how you hurt yourself on the outside; to try to kill the thing that's in the inside.

You look at me and think, 'she's so happy' but there's so much behind this little smile that you will never know.

People are always telling me to smile, like smiling is going to just take away all the hurt and pain. Well I've tried that I've tried hiding my sorrows and covering the sadness in smiles and what I've learned is that when it hurts this much inside your heart always has a way of showing it no matter how many masks you wear.


images-1This picture shows that you must stay strong through this.



Unknown-1 copyThis picture is showing that you should love yourself




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Comments (6)

Ameer Holmes (Student 2016)
Ameer Holmes

It's a really interesting blog, a lot of pictures, graphic and makes me see the issue at hand more openminded. The Emo stereotype was a nice lesson but the pictures got in the way of the layout which made the pictures seem more important than the blog itself.

Michelle Friedman (Student 2016)
Michelle Friedman

You have lots of great pictures. You should proofread it and make sure that you have everything properly capitalized (especially "I"). Maybe for more squeamish people you should give a slight disclaimer at the start about the images and blood and stuff. But this is a really great and fantabulous blog post, though it is a really serious topic.