INTRODUCTION:
Every community has there own language, their are
certain words that originate in a place and are forgien to others no
matter how close the place my be geographically. I feel like you aren't
raised to speak a certain language, you grow into it, You speech and
term evolve as you grow older, meet new people, and surrond yourself in
new places.
ESSAY:
If
I were to move to Boston right now, about a year from now I’d catch
myself saying things like Pahhk, and Caaahh instead of pronouncing the
“AR” and “ARK” of the words. A person’s surrondings, can play an
enormous part in the way someone speaks, where they come from, how they
live their life and just there everyday surroundings. I find myself
altering the way I speak in several different situations. I’m proud of
who I am, and where I come from, but I realize that if I use my regular
tone of voice, and use some of the words that I’m use to using with my
friends and close family, there is no doubt in my mind that I would be
judged.
In 8th grade I had to shadow at a
wide variety of schools in several different parts of the city, one of
the schools I visited was, Spring Side School for girls, located in
Chestnut Hill, a very suburban area, the school itself sits upon 62
acres of land. Riding up to the school on the day of my shadow I saw
that the homes surrounding the school were beautifully built, each of
them had huge yards and at least two cars sitting in the driveway. There
were country clubs, and community and rec centers that actually looked
clean and safe to be in. When we got there my mom pulled into the
congested parking lot, not only did it seem like every student was old
enough to drive, but they had their own cars, but they weren’t the
typical “starter” cars a lot of high schoolers receive when they first
get their license, these were top of the line mercede benz and range
rovers sitting in the lot. I already didn’t like my visit, when we got
into the school and I actually started my day, I got a better feel for
the school. I saw that the school was very diverse when you’re judging
from a mile away, but when you’re up close and person you see that every
kid was just about the same. Yes, there were African Americans,
Caucasians, Hispanics, Asians, and Russian, but the way they spoke was
all the same. Each of them tended to drag out there words, a lot of them
talked like they were asking a question instead of stating a fact, and
just about everysingle one of them used atleast 6 acronyms in their
sentences. I remember a conversation I had with my shadow host,
Stephanie, she asked how I was enjoying my visit, and of course I
couldn’t express to her how uncomfortable I felt, so I lied, smile on my
face turning to her and saying,
“I love it, this school is perfect. What made you pick this school over every other one out there?”
“Well,
honestly, I.D.E.K [I don’t even know], Liiikkeee, I live in SouthWest
so I went to West Philadelphia high school for half of my freshmen year.
Then I transferred here, I mean my mom said she was looking for a new
school for me to go to but that was, A.F.A.I.K. [as far as I knew] Then
one day my advisor at West was all like, Steph you’re pretty intelli. I
think you should totally apply to SSCHA [SpringSide & Chestnut Hill
Academy], and at first I was all like HTP[hold the phone], no an all
girls school, you’ve obviously LYM [lost your mind]. But then they told
me to be opened mind and atleast check the school out, and so I did. I
shadowed, loooveeedd it, BTW [by the way] I applied and got here on
partial scholarship, and now that i’m here OMG[oh my gosh], I CSTP[Can’t
Stand this place] ! L.O.L [Laugh out loud], J/K[Just Kidding]. I love
it here, FWIW[For what its worth]”
I remember thinking to myself, how the hell was this girl from
Southwest talking like that? I use to go to school in little Charter
School in West Philly, my classmates in middle school were generally
from the West and SouthWest Philadelphia area. They used terms like,
“jawn” and “cuz” and they often cut their words to make them shorter and
easier to say in sentences. So, instead of saying ‘might as well’ they
might use a term like “mineswell.” The way my shadow host spoke was far
from that. She pronounced all of her syllables and she tended to drag
out her words instead of shorten them like the kids from the Southwest
neighborhood tended to do. It was intriguing to me how someone who came
from a part of the city I knew so well, spoke so similarly to a group of
people that lived miles away in a completely different part. Even
though I couldn’t really understand all of what she was saying, I just
shook my head, nodded and said,
“OMG cool, I love it here too”
Looking
back onto that day, I realize that the way she spoke at SpringSide
school had nothing to do with where she came from, it had everything to
do with where she was currently. After being at SpringSide School for
awhile, the way everyone else spoke around her rubbed off on her, she
adapted to their speech just like she adapted to her new advisor, or her
classmates, or the rules and regulations of the school. Everyone else
spoke like that so she had to blend in with her surroundings. She
transferred halfway through 9th grade, so not only was she the new kid
which is already scary enough, she was also different from the others. I
see that a lot here at my own school. Although my school is a pretty
diverse place racially, when you’re up close and personal and actually
surrounded by all of us, we’re actually the same when it comes to
dialect. We all speak the same language, if I were to go up to someone
outside of the SLA, and said something like, “Pause. You’re such a
weenie, you better chill and start working on that benchmark before
Reddy hits you with fladdaapp.” or if I go to people outside the SLA
community and instead of saying “True” when they something that I agree
with I say “True Black” people will look at me different like I’m the
weird one. A majority of people at this school, know what the fladdaapp
is, everyone knows what a benchmark is, everyone knows what it means to
be called a weenie, everyone knows the saying “that’s dead.” and
everyone knows the meaning behind saying “Trueee Black” instead of plain
old “Trueee.”
I
feel like no matter how racially diverse a place can get, at the end of
the day they all will evolve to using the same dialect. People at my
school come from all over, bringing with them, several new customs, and
ways of expressing themselves. When we all come together and try to
communicate, new dialect is formed, that along with the shared
experiences we have from being with each other everyday create a unique
language that only people inside our community would understand.
Newcomers to these communities must learn to adapt to the language that
is already set in place. That’s how Stephanie felt at springside, thats
similar to how I felt as a freshmen at SLA and I can assume thats how a
person that moves to a different part of town or even a different state
feel and I think that just comes naturally.